Ben Langhofer Blog

Our "Memory Chair

Our "Memory Chair

Our "Memory ChairBen Langhofer

Have you ever paid $2,000 for a chair? Me either. I bet you've never ruined a $2,000 chair. Well neither have I. But I almost did. More importantly I almost ruined a priceless moment over something as insignificant as a chair.

My Adoption Story

My Adoption Story

My Adoption StoryBen Langhofer

I loved the song and could very much relate with the lyrics. "What if your blessings come through raindrops...what if your healing comes through tears...what if a thousand sleepless nights is what it takes to know You're near...

How to "Show Up" for Your Kids' Even When You've Been Shut Out...Make Them Their Own Website

How to "Show Up" for Your Kids' Even When You've Been Shut Out...Make Them Their Own Website

How to "Show Up" for Your Kids' Even When You've Been Shut Out...Make Them Their Own WebsiteBen Langhofer

Divorce was absolutely the last thing I ever wanted for my family. I didn't want it and didn't see it coming at all. I genuinely believe that "back then" if I would have been offered to have a limb surgically removed in order to keep my family together,

Be An Intentional Mom or Dad

Be An Intentional Mom or Dad

Be An Intentional Mom or DadBen Langhofer

Being the best parent you can be It was once said "Any man can be a Father but it takes somebody special to become a daddy" I'd say anyone can drop an egg or donate sperm and many do just that but being a mommy or a daddy takes daily choices for a lifetime."